Evolutionary Men https://evolutionary.men/blog/podcasts/evolutionary-men/ Learn to lead in life & love with head, heart, and guts. Join men's guide Jason Lange to explore how to deepen your presence in the world, clarify your purpose, connect with your power, and find ease in dating & relationships. Tue, 15 Sep 2026 14:22:03 +0000 en-US © 2023 Evolutionary Men Evolutionary Men episodic Learn to lead in life & love with head, heart, and guts. Join men's guide Jason Lange to explore how to deepen your presence in the world, clarify your purpose, and find ease in dating & relationships. Evolutionary Men jason@evolutionary.men false https://evolutionary.men/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/2021_podcast-evo-AdobeStock_142706662.jpg Evolutionary Men https://evolutionary.men/blog/podcasts/evolutionary-men/ jason@evolutionary.men Learn to lead in life & love with head, heart, and guts. Join men's guide Jason Lange to explore how to deepen your presence in the world, clarify your purpose, and find ease in dating & relationships. No yes 32b3f760-0fa8-54fd-9ec6-0c8cc3b93aac https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0.4 147278453 https://evolutionary.men/podcast/why-youre-stuck-as-a-man/ Why You’re Stuck as a Man https://feeds.evolutionary.men/~/968976782/0/evolutionarymenpodcast~Why-Youre-Stuck-as-a-Man/ Fri, 11 Sep 2026 14:47:45 +0000 https://evolutionary.men/?post_type=podcast&p=1532174 In this episode I break down why so many men feel stuck. It comes down to two energetic moves I watch men make over and over, moves that burn enormous energy and produce no movement, so from the inside it feels like nothing is happening. I share where they come from, what they cost you in your body and your relationships, and the one thing I've seen actually get men unstuck. Then I leave you with two quick questions to find where you're doing both of these things.

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]]> 159 In this episode I break down why so many men feel stuck. It comes down to two energetic moves I watch men make over and over, moves that burn enormous energy and produce no movement, so from the inside it feels like nothing is happening. I share where they come from, what they cost you in your body and your relationships, and the one thing I've seen actually get men unstuck. Then I leave you with two quick questions to find where you're doing both of these things.

Join the Heart of Shadow Men's Group & Retreat

      
]]> https://evolutionary.men/wp-content/uploads/2026/09/e159.jpeg Why You’re Stuck as a Man false no 00:19:59 No no https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/1820c554-6366-4cc7-b3e5-c6054e9e3ea5/stream.mp3 https://evolutionary.men/podcast/whats-the-emotional-age-of-your-anger-with-alistair-moes/ What’s the Emotional Age of Your Anger? (with Alistair Moes) https://feeds.evolutionary.men/~/968231786/0/evolutionarymenpodcast~Whats-the-Emotional-Age-of-Your-Anger-with-Alistair-Moes/ Tue, 25 Aug 2026 20:39:53 +0000 https://evolutionary.men/?post_type=podcast&p=1531444 In this episode I invite Alistair Moes, who has operated his own anger management practice for over 31 years and has worked with more than 15,000 men and women, to discuss what truly occurs in the body when anger takes over, why many of us either explode or shut down and label it handling things, and what it means to meet conflict from the adult inside you rather than the wounded kid. We explore the family patterns that shaped each of our approaches to anger, and the practice that reveals which one is actually in control at any given moment.

Moose Anger Management

      
]]> 158 In this episode I invite Alistair Moes, who has operated his own anger management practice for over 31 years and has worked with more than 15,000 men and women, to discuss what truly occurs in the body when anger takes over, why many of us either explode or shut down and label it handling things, and what it means to meet conflict from the adult inside you rather than the wounded kid. We explore the family patterns that shaped each of our approaches to anger, and the practice that reveals which one is actually in control at any given moment.

Moose Anger Management

      
]]> https://evolutionary.men/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/e158.jpeg What’s the Emotional Age of Your Anger? (with Alistair Moes) false no 00:56:11 No no https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/27f71717-2db9-4168-9921-ff40c84e6ead/stream.mp3 https://evolutionary.men/podcast/daddy-has-tantrums-too/ Daddy Has Tantrums Too https://feeds.evolutionary.men/~/967842125/0/evolutionarymenpodcast~Daddy-Has-Tantrums-Too/ Fri, 14 Aug 2026 16:57:30 +0000 https://evolutionary.men/?post_type=podcast&p=1531015 In this episode I break down the moment I lost it with my daughter over a coloring page, the sharp voice, the walk to the car when I realized what I'd just done to her. I get into Dan Siegel's hand model of the brain, why your kid feels your nervous system more than your words, and where you're supposed to put that charge when your family isn't the place to dump it.

Join us Monday August 24th for Rage & Anger: How to Wisely Channel Your Power as a Man Build your space to bring your tantrums in The Heart of Shadow Men's Group & Retreat

      
]]> 155 In this episode I break down the moment I lost it with my daughter over a coloring page, the sharp voice, the walk to the car when I realized what I'd just done to her. I get into Dan Siegel's hand model of the brain, why your kid feels your nervous system more than your words, and where you're supposed to put that charge when your family isn't the place to dump it.

Join us Monday August 24th for Rage & Anger: How to Wisely Channel Your Power as a Man Build your space to bring your tantrums in The Heart of Shadow Men's Group & Retreat

      
]]> https://evolutionary.men/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/e155.jpeg Daddy Has Tantrums Too false no 968 No no https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/b6fca805-c209-4970-bf73-ebd262ed7736/stream.mp3 https://evolutionary.men/podcast/shadow-work-for-regaining-your-power/ Shadow Work for Regaining Your Power https://feeds.evolutionary.men/~/967697735/0/evolutionarymenpodcast~Shadow-Work-for-Regaining-Your-Power/ Tue, 11 Aug 2026 17:15:51 +0000 8843c24d-c1cd-5bb9-a1e2-1c8d8fd31353 In this episode I'm joined by Dr. Luke Adler to talk about shadow work for regaining your power, especially for nice guys who've gone allergic to their own force and desire. We get into the difference between power over and power under, why so many men carry a clog in their body around their center, and how father wounds shape our relationship to anger and protection.

Join us in reclaiming your power in The Heart of Shadow Men's Group & Retreat

      
]]> 154 In this episode I'm joined by Dr. Luke Adler to talk about shadow work for regaining your power, especially for nice guys who've gone allergic to their own force and desire. We get into the difference between power over and power under, why so many men carry a clog in their body around their center, and how father wounds shape our relationship to anger and protection.

Join us in reclaiming your power in The Heart of Shadow Men's Group & Retreat

      
]]> https://evolutionary.men/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/e154.jpeg Shadow Work for Regaining Your Power false no 00:31:33 No no https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/68a420b5-5130-43f8-b038-07aeeadfb93a/stream.mp3 https://evolutionary.men/podcast/she-feels-your-tension-before-she-feels-your-hands/ She Feels Your Tension Before She Feels Your Hands https://feeds.evolutionary.men/~/967301267/0/evolutionarymenpodcast~She-Feels-Your-Tension-Before-She-Feels-Your-Hands/ Fri, 07 Aug 2026 18:05:42 +0000 https://evolutionary.men/?post_type=podcast&p=1530728 In this episode I get into touch, why it lands or falls flat with a woman, and what her body is already reading in you before your hands ever move. I break down the physiology behind it, your breath, your nervous system, and the different kinds of tension that decide whether she melts into you or just tolerates you. I also get into my own history with touch, which wasn't pretty, and the frame I now use with the men I coach around all of this.

      
]]> 153 In this episode I get into touch, why it lands or falls flat with a woman, and what her body is already reading in you before your hands ever move. I break down the physiology behind it, your breath, your nervous system, and the different kinds of tension that decide whether she melts into you or just tolerates you. I also get into my own history with touch, which wasn't pretty, and the frame I now use with the men I coach around all of this.

      
]]> https://evolutionary.men/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/e153.jpeg She Feels Your Tension Before She Feels Your Hands false no 00:25:19 No no https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/c90a6e20-3fa5-4199-8c3f-41f7d5a4de62/stream.mp3 https://evolutionary.men/podcast/why-you-feel-like-youre-not-driving-your-own-life/ Why You Feel Like You’re Not Driving Your Own Life https://feeds.evolutionary.men/~/964526648/0/evolutionarymenpodcast~Why-You-Feel-Like-Youre-Not-Driving-Your-Own-Life/ Thu, 30 Jul 2026 11:00:00 +0000 5a75b5a1-429f-5408-ae0f-012f106580b1 In this episode I break down what's happening when life looks fine on paper but you feel like you're not the one driving it. Losing direction is nearly inevitable once the track (school, career, mortgage, kids) runs out, and you can't think your way back. I walk through the two compasses I've watched work in hundreds of men's lives, the practice men have used to read them for thousands of years, and the one place none of us wants to look.

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]]> 152 In this episode I break down what's happening when life looks fine on paper but you feel like you're not the one driving it. Losing direction is nearly inevitable once the track (school, career, mortgage, kids) runs out, and you can't think your way back. I walk through the two compasses I've watched work in hundreds of men's lives, the practice men have used to read them for thousands of years, and the one place none of us wants to look.

Get moving:

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]]> https://evolutionary.men/wp-content/uploads/2026/07/e152.jpeg Why You Feel Like You’re Not Driving Your Own Life false no 00:24:08 No no https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/0427c210-5cdc-4f4b-a13e-062c46c4b78d/stream.mp3 https://evolutionary.men/podcast/why-would-she-want-to-have-sex-with-you/ Why Would She WANT to Have Sex With You? https://feeds.evolutionary.men/~/962178911/0/evolutionarymenpodcast~Why-Would-She-WANT-to-Have-Sex-With-You/ Thu, 23 Jul 2026 15:24:57 +0000 https://evolutionary.men/?post_type=podcast&p=1530209 In this episode I get into the question most men never ask, why would she want to have sex with you? I break down Rosemary Basson's research on responsive desire, why her wanting often arrives through connection instead of before it, and what it actually takes to be a man she can open toward. I talk about tending your own nervous system, learning her warm up sequence, feeding the connection all week, and the real difference between reaching for her from tension release versus reaching for her by name.

On air I taught the first half of a bigger map. The full teaching, both axes, all four engines, her side of the grid, and the three ways reaching for her goes wrong, is written up here: The Two Engines of Desire.

What to expand your capacity as a lover? Learn from touch coach Elizabeth Anneka about the power of breath for good sex by signing up for How to Touch Women: It Starts with Your Breath Workshop on Monday, August 10th at 5:30pm Pacific. $97.

      
]]> 151 In this episode I get into the question most men never ask, why would she want to have sex with you? I break down Rosemary Basson's research on responsive desire, why her wanting often arrives through connection instead of before it, and what it actually takes to be a man she can open toward. I talk about tending your own nervous system, learning her warm up sequence, feeding the connection all week, and the real difference between reaching for her from tension release versus reaching for her by name.

On air I taught the first half of a bigger map. The full teaching, both axes, all four engines, her side of the grid, and the three ways reaching for her goes wrong, is written up here: The Two Engines of Desire.

What to expand your capacity as a lover? Learn from touch coach Elizabeth Anneka about the power of breath for good sex by signing up for How to Touch Women: It Starts with Your Breath Workshop on Monday, August 10th at 5:30pm Pacific. $97.

      
]]> https://evolutionary.men/wp-content/uploads/2026/07/e151.jpeg Why Would She WANT to Have Sex With You? false no 00:26:09 No no https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/b57f592e-a2e0-4ca6-82f0-6413d90a3481/stream.mp3